It's time to remind ourselves
of our New Year's goal
By Jane Clapp, BComm, CPTN, ACE,
CFP
This is just about the time many people
realize their New Year's resolutions to make
healthful changes are not much more than
tragic memories. Understanding why these
worthwhile efforts get pushed aside may help
inspire you to get back on track. It is not
too late!
Many well-intentioned changes are doomed
because people try to tackle too many changes
at once. (Sound familiar?) Instead, people
need to set a larger goal and break their
lifestyle transformation into small,
easy-to-implement chunks. For example, week
one: get used to eating a protein-rich
breakfast. Week two: add exercising twice per
week (and build up to four times per week by
week 6). Week three: cut out simple
carbohydrates in addition to maintaining the
goals achieved in week one and week two. Get
the idea?
When people set unrealistic, unachievable
goals the resulting failure further damages
their confidence that they can change.
Another "failure" makes people feel even
worse than before they set their New Year
resolutions. If that is what happened to you
this year, remember the old saying: It
doesn't matter how many times you get knocked
down, it matters how many times you get back
up!
So New Year resolutions can be successful if
you follow the rules of making goals SMART --
Simple, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and
Timed.
I just recently started believing in the
power of New Years' resolution. In many ways
I choose to adopt alternative outlooks on the
world. I like to think I march to the beat of
my own drum. So when it came to New Year's
resolutions I turned my nose up at the idea
by pure reflex. But I decided to research the
whole New Year's resolution custom to see how
long we've been using the first day of the
year as the starting line to make changes in
our lives.
The tradition of the New Year's resolution
goes back to 153 B.C. Janus, a mythical king
of early Rome, was placed at the head of the
calendar. With two faces--one on the front of
his head and one on the back--he could look
backward and forward at the same time. At
midnight on December 31, the Romans imagined
Janus looking back at the old year and
forward to the new. Janus became the ancient
symbol for resolutions and many Romans looked
for forgiveness from their enemies and also
exchanged gifts to mark the beginning of each
year.
So after reading a brief history of New
Year's resolutions I decided that maybe this
tradition has been around for so long for a
very good reason. Maybe we all need a day on
the calendar to inspire us to reassess our
choices. Maybe being a cliche isn't so bad.
Here's the kicker though. We need
accountability to keep us on track. Whether
that accountability is monitored by a
partner, a personal trainer, a life coach or
a therapist, we all need to lean on each
other for support when making changes in our
lives.
Success is what keeps people inspired to plow
forward with more change. People setting up
failures for themselves fall into the victim
mentality plaguing North American culture.
Not trying to change or not setting up
efforts properly lead some people to perceive
themselves as powerless, leading to more
years of unhealthy health choices.
This victim mentality bleeds into all aspects
of people's lives and a person's sense of
empowerment with work, family and spirituality.
Life isn't going to get easier by accident.
Becoming physically stronger and healthier
will help us deal with all the challenges
life throws at us. No one else is responsible
for our health, and
without positive change we will continue to
get fatter, weaker and more dependent on old
school medicine interventions to help us
manage disease and chronic medical conditions.
Your goal to be healthier was a good idea on
January 1, and now you know how to make it
work. It's not too late to make 2008 the
year of healthy changes.
Jane Clapp created a distinctive fitness
approach that addresses the specific
challenges a desk worker faces. Her potent
brew of training alchemy blends functional
training, weight management, postural
awareness and mind body work to proven
effect. Jane co-authored a book titled
"Working
on the Ball: A Simple Guide to
Office Fitness" that takes the reader through
a full day of exercises using a stability
ball as a chair. It's the first guide to
tackle the challenges of the office worker
who wants to lose weight, get fit, improve
posture and combat stress where we spend the
most time - the workplace.
Jane earned her bachelor of commerce
degree specializing in Human Resource
Management and later worked for large
corporations in workplace health and safety,
change management, employee wellness and
training. Jane is the founder of Urbanfitt
Studio(www.urbanfitt.com)
in Toronto
providing superior holistic health and
wellness services to a high profile
clientele. She has appeared on numerous
television shows and in several national
newspapers and magazines sharing her
expertise and inspiration.